After my last entry, that I ended up deleting because of a comment I had made that should have been left unsaid, I thought that maybe I wouldn't blog anymore, but due to a few incidents that happened this week, I feel the need and desire to write them down in this blog. Plus, I didn't think anyone other than my daughter would be reading this, so hadn't really worried about what I was writing. Now I know better.
I follow my daughter's blog, and just read her entry about our meeting with my son, her brother. I'd like to correct a comment she made; she said she was grateful that he had decided to contact us. Actually what happened was this; I looked for him through a post-adoption registry and when we found him he agreed to start communication with me. We started emailing, I then put him in touch with his sisters and when he came out here for vacation he decided it was time to set up the meeting with us. During our earlier communications he confessed that had I not looked for him, he probably would never have looked for us, because he had a good life. He'd been curious about me and wondered if he had any siblings but never thought to take it any further than that. But now that I found him, he is very glad that I made the effort. This truly is such a miracle and I thought my family would be happy for me, but my family never does what I expect them to do. One of my brother's sent him a birthday wish via facebook, even though I'd asked him to not contact Cam. When does my family ever listen to me. However, the visit with Cam was "amazing" and I thank God every day that He brought him back to me.
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